The term youth is as complicated as those who are associated with it. It is often interchanged with adolescent, teenager or even young adult. These terms basically mean the same thing but occasionally differentiated. Generally, youth refers to a period between childhood and adulthood.
Youth is also a state of mind as it is associated with a certain way of doing things and that is why it is possible to find individuals past their youth being described as youthful or some taking their youth too far by how they carry themselves.
Being youth has also been associated with certain traits and behaviour: both positive and negative. The youth are supposed to be imaginative, innovative, courageous and independent in the mind and have often been referred to as future leaders.
The youth have also been associated with negative behaviours such as violence, recklessness, untrustworthy, unpatriotic among others.
THE KENYAN YOUTH.
Youth in many parts of the world have been recognized for all the wrong reasons and Kenya is not an exception. The majority of the people in Kenya jails are youth. The Kenyan youth is idle, frustrated, rowdy,lazy and evil. The Kenyan youth has adopted a culture of violence and destruction. These youth are frustrated and overwhelmed by the challenges that the face in their daily lives. They do not own property and have not been offered opportunities to enable them own property and therefore are ready to destroy without a second thought. The are some of the consequences of failing to cater for the needs of youth and providing opportunity for them in national development.
Youth involvement in conflict and violence is a global problem, but what sets the Kenyan youth apart is their readiness to kill and destroy not for their own cause but for others."Fighting other people’s wars". (Post election violence)
CHALLENGES.
Unemployment ranks highest among the challenges facing the youth in this age of globalization, labour flexibility and rapid social change. Unemployment among the youth remains 2 to 3times that of their elder folks constituting some 40% of global unemployment.This has been because of discrimination in the form of work experience in employment requirements,illiteracy due to the limited opportunities in accessing higher education and the lack of confidence in youth leadership by the Kenyan society.
Discrimination is not only in employment but in social development. Most people view the youth as anti social and unpatriotic to their country. The police have a negative attitude towards the youth and this has led to arbitrary arrests of youths and mistreatment by the same. The youth are always the first suspects when a crime has been committed.
Youth conflict is therefore a societal process rather than a problem of immature, confused or troubled young people. This dilemma occurs when societies fail to separate their young to protect and prepare them as they mature yet take advantage of their separate status to engage them in activities that serve society. The dilemma of youth is that this separate phase can be limiting as well as nurturing. When separated by their status as minors, young people may receive protections like the right to education or freedom from forced labour, but they are also excluded from participation in citizenship activities,like voting,that exert some determination over the future of the society. The point is that youth youth feel as part of society and they should be allowed to play their role and feel important and have a sense of responsibility to the society.
( International perspectives on youth conflict and development. ColetteDAIUTE, Zeynep Beykont, Craig Higson-Smith, Larry Nucci. OxfordUni.press. pg 12-13)
Assumptions about their innocence or inability to understand the complexities of social life may unwittingly lead young people to exclusion from activities where they could contribute or learn. When excluded from full participation as citizens,they also become tools or scapegoats for others purposes.
The youth in Kenya lack an identity that unites them towards a common goal. They lack role models and a vision because in their current situation, they don’t see a bright future ahead but tough times ahead of them. This has made the youth to adopt foreign cultures and behaviour which is not necessarily beneficial to them and most of what they adopt is negative.
Media and communication technologies have not helped much. Youths in Kenya today have access to foreign soap operas, foreign lifestyles through television and the internet, music and news around the world which further expands the options available. However, the youth in Kenya have not used the media for their benefit; e-commerce, the virtual classroom, cyber-democracy etc. The youth can use new opportunities for democratic and community participation, for creativity, self-expression and development, expansion of knowledge, global perspective on issues thereby supporting diversity, difference and debate.However, majority of youth in Kenya have used the media and telecommunications to the erosion of traditional values and authority, the rise of individualized and privatized lifestyles increasingly dependent on the economics of consumerism tending to undermine national culture and national media regulation. Rap culture is ingrained in Kenya especially among the youth in urban centres who want to be associated with rap culture. This has made them adopt careless lifestyles and an aggressive behaviour that is common with rap artists in the U.S These include gangster profiles that land most of them into trouble, expensive foreign mode of dressing and uncouth dressing modes. Males would want to sag their trousers n show their underwear like their rap role models do and females have continues to dress as brief as they possibly could.
This has been compounded by engaging in high risk lifestyles by the youth. Alcoholism, drugs and sex has become fashionable among the youth and this has derailed them from the reality of life as most of them end up dropping out of schools and engaging in crime to be able to afford drugs and alcohol as well go to social joints to “have fun”. The perception is that fun is when one drinks excessively and dares the world by challenging the police, over speeding, destruction and arrogance.
The youth in Kenya are exploited and misused. Some individuals have taken advantage of the youth situation to use the youth to do their dirty work. Politicians are the majority of this group
WHO IS TO BLAME?
Parents cannot escape from this because they have failed to stand up for the youth as they are busy in their careers hoping that that the youth will get a place in a future role never seems to come. Parents today have become very busy and neglected their kids or their role to discipline their children and establish healthy relationships with their children.Most children grow up without the nurturing and guidance from their parents and when they grow up to their youth, they become independent minded and try to make independent choices without proper training on how to make wise decisions and choices.
According to William Glasser’s choice theory, each one of us can control only his own thoughts and actions. By exerting a great deal of coercion we can temporarily control the actions of other people but we can never control their thoughts. And as soon as any person is free of us, as when he or she is out of sight, he or she can do anything he pleases. How far he will deviate from what you want him to do will depend on the strength of your relationship. The stronger it is, the more he will behave the way you want him to when he is on his own.